master presence:
real skills
real confidence
real connection
Etiquette, communication & personal presence
for work, life & everything in between
Licensed and certified by The American Academy of Etiquette
Presence, polish or people skills... what's missing?
Are you the manager who wishes onboarding didn't eat up half of your week? A high school teacher or administrator who knows the key to your students' success is people skills, not just a degree? A business owner tired of reminding your team that how they show up IS your brand? Or maybe you're a parent who just wants your middle-schooler to look adults in the eye and not mumble through introductions?
you're in the right place
What I do
confidence
I show you how to build confidence into a repeatable skill, not just a fleeting feeling.
presence
I guide you in making presence practical so you can walk into any room with ease and impact.
communication
I teach you how to turn everyday interactions into meaningful connections.
Don't adapt to the energy in the room.
influence the energy
in the room.
-unknown
how I can help
Etiquette training shouldn't feel like Saturday school detention (cue scenes from The Breakfast Club). My sessions cut out the judgement and micromanaging and focus on skills everyone can use. The goal isn't to police behavior, it's to give people the confidence to show up well and the awareness to make others feel comfortable. When it's framed that way, participants don't just sit through the training, they actually lean in and enjoy it.
My forte has always been presence and communication-skills I mastered long before I even started teaching them. As a professional actor, I had to sell myself in seconds at an audition and then again to a live audience every night. It wasn't about perfect lines; it was about energy, connection and making people believe in me. That's where I learned the real power of personal branding and presence. Now, I get to teach others how to show up with that same kind of confidence and impact.
My training is fully customizable, interactive, and designed to meet people where they are. I use real-world activities, stories and a little humor to make skills like presence, confidence, and connection feel practical and approachable. Whether it's for a group of students, a corporate team, or an individual looking to sharpen their edge, every session is tailored to the goals in front of me. The end result? People walk away with skills they can actually use and a little more confidence in how they show up.
real results
“Presilah's ability to break down complex concepts into relatable, actionable steps made the training both engaging and easy to apply.”
What really stood out was her interactive approach: encouraging participation, fostering open discussions and creating a safe space where everyone felt heard. Whether you're looking to improve team collaboration, build confidence in public speaking or enhance client interactions, I highly recommend The Finer Points. Presilah's energy, professionalism and genuine passion for helping others grow is truly inspiring.
- Amanda, HR Director
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- rachel, photographer
topics that I
cover
let's dive deeper
From first impressions that stick to handling awkward social moments with ease, my modules build the people skills that set you apart. And yes, I have programs just for teens and young adults, too.
I offer
in-person training
Whether you're looking for a focused one-on-one session or a series that builds over time, I'd love to bring my sessions to you or your group in person. Every training is interactive, tailored, and designed to give you skills you can actually use the moment you walk out the door.
virtual training
or perhaps...
If your team is spread out across locations, or if you'd like one-on-one coaching but we're miles apart, virtual sessions make it easy. It's the same interactive, tailored approach, just through a screen.
ready to level up?
confidence
starts here
Equip yourself (or your team) with skills that turn everyday moments into lasting impressions.
hello there.
I'm presilah
I believe etiquette isn't about old rules, it's about showing up with confidence, clarity and kindness. With a background in professional performance and years of small business experience, I've created a modern etiquette program that helps people of all ages communicate with more purpose and presence-in boardrooms, classrooms and beyond.
City girl turned country mama. classic sitcom enthusiast, pancake connoisseur. historic home dweller